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Bienvenidos!
As a child, I was blessed to have my loving family, friends and culture surround and support me. I grew up in a wonderful, magical place, which is now a historic monument in Los Angeles, known as Olvera Street. Now that I have become an adult, I often reminisce about “the good old days.” Today’s world seems to feature violence, abuse, drugs, gangs, neglected children and homelessness. Now with the chaos and frenzy of world terrorism, I feel a special need to reach out to be part of the healing in our world.
 We Americans are fortunate to live in a country with enormous wealth and knowledge. But with all the smarts we have, there is one subject that sends many of us to the corner cowering. We recoil and whimper at the ultimate topic: death.
We try to avoid the subject whenever possible, and whisper it only when necessary. However, rich or poor, black or white, we will all eventually all become dust in the wind. So when death inevitably knocks on our family's door, what do we tell the kids? What could we possibly say that might ease the pain of losing a loved one? Might it be better just to bite our lip and tough it out?
As Latinos in America, we are in a unique position. In passing on the tradition of Dia De Los Muertos (“Day of the Dead”) to us, our ancestors have passed the torch of light to us, and through us, their spirits prosper. Our culture teaches our children that the spirit--the soul--never leaves the earth. Our children are stronger for this and the legacy of our loved ones enriches our lives.
As an American, I feel special pride in our country and I am grateful for all the wealth I have right outside my doorstep. Where else in the world can you go and meet Chinese, Mexican, Thai, Japanese, Indian, African, German, Irish, English, Korean, Filipino, Cuban, Vietnamese, Italian, and people from all over the world? We have a great treasure in our own backyards and we can partake of their food, culture, and much more. Why don’t we take the opportunity to learn from one another’s wisdom, culture and traditions and adopt it into our own lives? I believe that ALL of our ancestors created traditions in order to build a strong foundation and to make life more meaningful and joyful. Our lives are composed with the same need of love, nourishment and respect. We are all God’s children, and when our spirits leave this world to begin a new journey beyond, we will all leave the same pale skeletons behind.
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We encourage everyone, of all cultural backgrounds, to honor those you have loved and who have touched your life. You too can partake of this wonderful and loving tradition. It can be as simple as a table or shelf with your loved one's photo and a few of that person's favorite things. Whatever brings memories to you about him or her belongs on your altar. The altar can look traditional or modern -- be creative; there are no limitations. It will become a time to rejoice and share memories. Should you like to share your altar, e-mail me a photo and your dedication. I would surely enjoy hearing about your journey! In homage to my wonderful Grandmother, I have written a story “Mailbox to Heaven”. Please visit it. It is a place where you may write a letter to a beloved one.
Please tell your children so they understand that death occurs to everyone during our journey through life. The celebration can become an annual event with your family as you pay your yearly respect. Share your stories of loved ones long gone with your children, family and friends and keep their memories and contributions alive!
Feliz Días de los Muertos!
Affectionately.
Ginette Rondeau, Curator/Artist
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